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Registration for Not Back To School Camp, 2003
-just the facts-
what: Not Back to School Camp
who: About 100 unschoolers ages 13 to 18. An adult staff of 13-22, led by
Grace Llewellyn and Taber Shadburne.
when: Session 1, August 25-September 1, Session 2, September 4-11, Session
3, September 25-October 2.
where: Sessions 1-2, Camp Myrtlewood, approx. 120 miles from Eugene,
Oregon, Session 3, Buffalo Gap, approx. 75 miles from Washington DC.
how much: $485. $25 additional if you register after March 18, 2003. An
additional fee (about $25) for an optional field trip. 12 half-price
scholarships and 5 work-trade scholarships are available. We may also have
some flexible, extra scholarship money, which may be used for full
scholarships, possibly even travel stipends.
why: To change ourselves and the world, teach each other great things, and
sleep under the moon....
how to reach us: P0 Box 1014, Eugene, OR 97440. Phone 541-686-2315. (If you
have questions, our office hours are 9a.m. to 2 p.m. Mon and Wed., Pacific
Time.) Fax 509-696-3310. Email NBTSC@aol.com
web site: http://www.nbtsc.org
Start your unschooling year with
high hopes,
new interests,
a big bang,
a loud splash,
and a tribe of new friends!
Don't miss the eighth annual
Not Back to School
Camp 2003
for unschoolers ages 13-18.
Camp Myrtlewood, Oregon
Buffalo Gap Community Camp, West Virginia
Session 1, August 25-September 2, Oregon
Session 2, September 4-11, Oregon
Session 3, September 25-October 2, West Virginia
-Parents say-
"[My son] has never experienced such openness, such honesty and such love-
and he is renewed. He feels accepted, uplifted, empowered and, above all
else, valued! .You are working magic at NBTSC..nurturing wings. I applaud
you and thank you."
"My kids really love NBTSC and all of their new friends. It makes
homeschooling a lot less lonely for them when they meet a diverse group of
open-minded homeschoolers. .Thank you for your part in helping my children
achieve strength, confidence, and independence."
"I have seen so many of the Vancouver kids come back from camp with subtle
(or not so subtle) changes in maturity, confidence etc. I can't thank you
enough for what you do by giving these kids the chance to be together and
spread their wings like this."
"The camp was fabulous for [my daughter] and the kids were too -- very
different from her high school friends, in maturity, drive, self-
assuredness, openness and vulnerability."
"Just a quick note of appreciation from a very pleased parent! .I know [my
son] had one of the best weeks of his life and he's had a lot of excellent
weeks in his 17 years. back he comes from camp with a zillion new friends-
he promptly hooked us up to email and in the last 3-4 weeks has written
well over 100 letters!"
"My son returned from your camp with renewed enthusiasm for life and
learning! Thank you so much for having this get-together of, apparently,
some of the most gifted and interesting people on earth!"
"[Our daughter] returned to us full of self-assurance, excitement, and
positive loving energy. The revelation that there are other teenagers out
there with her unschooler ideas was a delightful awakening for her."
"I should tell you that [my son] had a wonderful time at NBTSC. It's
resulted in some significant changes in how [he] approaches life, and he's
enthusiastic about going back next year."
Hello!
This booklet contains lots of information about Not Back to School Camp, so
you can make an informed decision as to whether you want to join the
ruckus. We've had a blast during our first seven camp seasons and plan to
do so again in 2003! If you have questions, please check first to see
whether we've already answered them in this booklet or on our website
(www.nbtsc.org). If we haven't, feel free to phone, fax, write, or email,
and we'll get back to you ASAP.
-What's new for 2003-
We're trying a new experiment for Sessions 1 and 2 in Oregon. Both because
we want to try out some new ideas and because so many people come to both
sessions of camp, we are going to make the 2 sessions a little different
from each other.
The new session 2. We'll spend two days working on really cool projects
together-you'll have about 7-10 to choose from and will join a group and a
project leader to make something nifty happen. Because this is a new twist
to camp, we'll ask each person to fill out a simple application essentially
verifying that they want to participate in our new experiment. As usual, we
only want people at camp who freely and fully choose to be there, and we
want to make absolutely sure that everyone who comes is aware of the
changes.
We'll have a field trip Session 1, but not Session 2.
Buffalo Gap NBTSC will be 2 weeks earlier, so we hope to be warmer and
drier!
For Session 3, most of us will meet at Buffalo Gap or in Winchester,
Virginia, rather than in Cumberland, Maryland. However, we will still pick
up Amtrak folks (if any) in Cumberland.
We'll start off Sessions 1 and 3 with a project fair, in which each person
who wants to will give demonstrations or post visuals related to his
workshop, talent show act, or to any of his other interests or goals. We'll
start off Session 2 with a fair in which each project leader shows and
explains what her project is about.
We're considering trying out a new activity instead of the Power Shuffle
(probably similar), particularly (but not necessarily only) in Oregon.
There are several reasons for this; if you're wondering why, you can email
me (Grace) at GraceLlew@aol.com and I'll explain our thinking.
-Who-
You: Unschoolers/homeschoolers from anywhere on this planet are invited, if
they speak English and are between the ages of 13 and 18. Can you still
come if you go to school part time? Or if you're not yet a homeschooler,
but are about to become one? Or if you've "graduated" from homeschooling
and now attend college or hold a job? Or if you have smelly feet? Sure. The
maximum number of campers possible is about 105 in Oregon, 115 in West
Virginia.
Your staff: Your hosts are Grace Llewellyn and Taber Shadburne. Grace is
best known as the author of The Teenage Liberation Handbook: how to quit
school and get a real life and education and the founder of NBTSC. Taber is
a psychotherapist and personal growth workshop leader. He's worked at NBTSC
since 1998 (with a sabbatical in 2002) and this will be his third year co-
directing. We will be joined by a terrific staff of approximately 11 in
West Virginia, 20 in Oregon.
(Non) religious orientation: NBTSC is a non-denominational, non-religious
camp. We strive to honor each person's religious beliefs or lack thereof,
and ask that all campers do likewise.
Not Back to School Camp welcomes diversity. We are open to homeschoolers
and unschoolers of all races, ethnic backgrounds, genders, religious
beliefs, sexual orientations, economic backgrounds, and physical
capabilities.
-Where-
Sessions 1 and 2: We meet in Eugene, Oregon. Our buses will deliver you to
our home for the week, and back to Eugene at the end of the week. Camp
Myrtlewood is near the tiny town of Bridge, Oregon. It's about 120 miles
Southwest of Eugene, in the coastal mountain range.
Session 3: Buffalo Gap is nestled in the mountains near the tiny town of
Capon Bridge, West Virginia. It's a few hours' drive from either
Pittsburgh, Baltimore, or Washington (75 miles West of Washington). For
people who can't meet us at Buffalo Gap, we can pick you up in Winchester,
Virginia (about 20 miles East of camp), or (if you're taking the train) in
Cumberland, Maryland (about 80 miles Northeast of camp).
Lodging and facilities: You'll stay in a clean, simple cabin. Girls and
boys have separate cabins; all ages are mixed together. Bathrooms are in
separate buildings a few yards away. (Some of the Buffalo Gap cabins have
their own bathrooms.) Staff generally stays in separate cabins. Both sites
have all the facilities we need for a great week, plenty of room for
eating, workshops, dances, games, sports, hiking, and enjoying nature. Camp
Myrtlewood offers a pretty creek with a swimming hole; Buffalo Gap offers a
2-acre spring-fed lake with a diving platform and sandy beach, a sauna, an
outdoor dance pavilion, and a huge gym for basketball, dancing, and other
stuff.
-Weather:- In both Oregon and West Virginia, chances are good we'll have warm
weather with coldish nights. It may rain a bit-it often does, but we just
keep on playing anyway.
-What We're Gonna Do-
Swim; talk; sing; drum; dance; hike; stare at the sky; play volleyball and
softball and soccer; take creative, emotional, and intellectual risks;
encourage each other to do amazing things; have talent shows; teach and
learn from each other. Each camper will be encouraged to contribute both
creatively (teach a workshop, lead a sport or group singing, etc.) and not-
quite-so-creatively (wash dishes, cut vegetables, pick up trash, etc.).
-Daily schedule:- Each day we have a morning meeting and a brief evening
meeting; everyone is required to attend both, during which important
announcements are made and campers and staff are able to raise concerns.
Everyone is also encouraged, but not forced, to participate in evening
group activities. And we share mealtimes, of course. Beyond this, there are
many scheduled daytime activities, sports games, and workshops-led both by
staff and by you and your peers. Usually, you can choose among these
daytime activities-or nap, talk with a new friend, or create your own fun.
-Session 2 projects:- For two days during Session 2, all campers will cluster
in groups and undertake nifty projects. We haven't yet decided on
specifics, but you can expect a wide array to choose from-perhaps a
conscious communication workshop, a sculpture intensive, a field biology
extravaganza, a community service project for Camp Myrtlewood, a mural, a
musical production, a wilderness awareness workshop.. Probably the way
we'll handle this is to ask you to make tentative choices before camp, but
then at the beginning of the week have most leaders give a brief
presentation, at which time you can probably change your mind if you want
to. Some projects may be limited in size, so you may not get your first
pick, but we're pretty sure that there will be enough inspiring choices to
go around. Workshop leaders will include NBTSC staff and 1 or 2 outside
guests. Also, if any campers want to lead a project, we'll consider that
too. Contact us or check our website around mid-January for an application
form.
-Evening events:- are special-sometimes simple, sometimes elaborate... .a
campfire sing-along, talent shows, dancing, and other good stuff.
-Workshops: a sampling- We'll have literally dozens of workshops to choose
from during the week. They'll reflect the talents and interests of all
staff and campers. At previous camps, we've had about 100 workshops per
week, including breakdancing, solar cooking, kung fu, orienteering, yoga,
cob-oven building, web-page designing, surrealist games, co-counseling, VW
engine fixing, drama, poetry, getting published and self-publishing,
origami, art booklets, swing dancing, youth rights, tree identification,
beading, and photography. Except during the Session 2 projects, you can
decide each day what you want to do. We do offer a lot of really good
workshops and we expect that each of you will go home with new skills
you're excited about. But the point is not to be frantically busy, and it's
fine if you don't want to participate in lots of these organized
activities. The sun and the forest will have plenty of suggestions of their
own.
-Your workshop or sport:- Each camper is strongly encouraged to lead a
workshop or coach/teach a game/sport. Most workshops run 1 hour, and many
groups make plans to get together again later or to continue a discussion
over lunch. You do not have to be an expert in your field to teach a
workshop. As many campers have discovered, even if you are a beginner, you
can be a good workshop teacher. If you need supplies, we can provide basic
art and office supplies, a boom box, sports equipment, and a few other
items, but you will need to provide most other materials.
-Sports:- We typically play volleyball, basketball, soccer, ultimate Frisbee,
and softball. If there's another sport you want to play, volunteer to start
a game.
-Unscheduled activities:- Most of the time you're free to make your own fun
if you don't feel like participating in a group activity. You can swim
whenever the swimming hole or lake is supervised, hike on trails, talk with
new friends, read, nap, swing, practice a new skill...
-Show and tell nights:- Talent shows are a great highlight of camp. You can
play music, balance on a ping pong ball, dance, sing, show your artwork, do
stand up comedy, turn cartwheels, juggle forks, tell us the wildest thing
that ever happened to your family, swallow a sword, read your poetry or a
very short story, or just stand up and tell us what makes you tick. You
might consider getting up and performing or sharing something related to
your workshop. You'll have up to 4 minutes if you're going solo, or up to 7
minutes if you're in a group of 2 or more.
-What parents should know about NBTSC-
The vast majority of feedback we get from parents is glowingly positive,
and we do our work in the hope that it contributes to the health and
strength not only of our teenage campers, but also of their relationships
with the families that they return to after camp is over. But it is
possible that some of the things we do may not be consistent with what you
want for your family, or for a particular individual because of her
maturity level or background. It is never our intent to mislead anyone
about what happens at camp. Here are a few things you may want to consider:
Like other teenagers, many of the kids who come to camp are interested in
learning about sexuality. The majority of campers are not sexually active,
but naturally they are beginning to experience themselves as sexual beings.
So, they initiate workshops and discussions on various aspects of
relationships and sexuality. Most of these are pretty serious in nature; a
few are silly. It is not our policy to censor any of these. Sometimes staff
attends and participates in discussions, adding an adult leadership
dimension. Other times, campers prefer to talk amongst themselves without
adults present. We honor these preferences.
Also, occasionally staff offers workshops related to sexuality. The most
common scenario is for a female staff member to give a workshop on women's
sexuality and body image, with an empowering, feminist slant. Staff have
also offered workshops on birth control, relationships, and on larger
topics-such as conscious communication-that can include sexuality. We do
not, as a camp, endorse any particular expression of sexuality; nor do we
encourage campers to seek out sexual experiences with other people. We also
have a clear and firm expectation that campers not have sex while at camp,
and we stay in dialogue about this issue with the group as a whole and with
individual campers who get into romances during camp. We take steps to
promote an overall atmosphere that is group-oriented, affectionate,
uplifting, and wholesome.
Some parents may also wish to know that some of our workshops and evening
activities tend toward the realm of personal growth and even somewhat
therapeutic processes. Sometimes staffers offer workshops in topics such as
Radical Honesty, intimacy, meditation, peer counseling, learning to love
and accept oneself, etc.
Also, one evening we typically do a fairly intense personal growth
exercise, called a "Power Shuffle," that a few campers brought to NBTSC a
few years ago after doing it in another summer camp. Basically, it involves
self-disclosure on issues ranging from what socio-economic class each
person identifies with, to whether each person has been the victim or
perpetrator of abuse. This activity is not mandatory, and in fact we don't
even encourage campers to come, but most campers and staff usually do
participate. For most people, it is a positive and moving experience, and
we offer support and debriefing afterward, but over the 4 years we've done
the Power Shuffle there have been a few kids who chose to participate but
may not have been emotionally ready to deal with feelings that came up
afterward. For this and other reasons we're strongly considering modifying
the Power Shuffle in 2003, or replacing it altogether with another potent
bonding exercise, but we mention it here because it is an example of one of
the kinds of activities that go on at camp.
The majority of the time you'll find most people making music, hanging out
in relaxed groups talking about traveling or favorite foods or how to make
the world a better place, learning to juggle or make zines or write poetry,
applauding each other enthusiastically during talent shows, hugging,
laughing, playing Frisbee, laying in the sun, or helping in our fragrant,
peaceful kitchen. But we do have intense moments too, and we do tend to
talk about just about everything at camp. Campers tend to find their own
appropriate level; for instance, when male campers initiate a "men's group"
to talk about issues related to masculinity, most who attend are older
campers. But sometimes younger campers come and listen to such workshops
out of curiosity. Overall this seems healthy and appropriate to us, but we
want to make sure we're not misleading you as to the nature of what goes
on. If you have any further questions about any of this, please contact us
and we'll gladly talk with you.
Please also see "an important note for parents and campers on bedtimes and
sleeping arrangements," at the end of this brochure.
-Staff-
Our multi-faceted, caring, funny, altogether delightful staff is one of the
best things about NBTSC. They teach outstanding workshops and coach sports,
lead group singing, facilitate discussions, cook great food, and those who
aren't exhausted sometimes stay up late and join in the after-midnight
revels. For the most part, our experience is that the staff adores the
campers and the campers adore the staff.
-Advisors:- One staff person will be your designated "advisor" during the
week. Although you are welcome to talk with any of us about concerns or
questions, this person is responsible for checking in with you regularly,
making sure you're accounted for several times a day, etc. You'll also meet
briefly with your advisor (and about 10 other campers) each morning as part
of our meeting, to check in, discuss concerns, ask questions.
-Food-
Three yummy, simple vegetarian meals each day. Vegan alternatives for
people who request them in advance, and we can usually accommodate wheat-
free diets too. People with numerous allergies or other special diets may
need to supply some of their own food. (In Oregon, we prepare our own food
and use mostly organically grown ingredients. In West Virginia, the Buffalo
Gap staff cooks for us, and unfortunately, organic ingredients would knock
the price tag of camp up too high. In future years we hope to find a site
where we can provide our own food as we do in Oregon.)
money
The cost of NBTSC (including supplies, food, local transportation, staff
salaries, labor, lodging, overhead, etc.) is $485 per person. The camp fee
includes just about everything: travel from and to Eugene or Winchester (or
Cumberland), hearty meals, lodging, almost all activities. (Some campers or
staff may plan workshops with a small additional materials fee, and we'll
offer an optional day trip, which will require a $25 transportation fee. In
Oregon, our field trip goes to the coast; we'll let you know our West
Virginia destination later.) You'll also receive a directory of all campers
and staff, and a "bliss book"-a zine full of notes on workshops and other
stuff people feel passionate about.
-Registration-
Please register (with a deposit) by March 18. After that date, your cost
increases by $25. You may want to register much sooner to get into the
session of your choice. A $75 non-refundable deposit is due with your
registration. The balance is due 6 weeks before the start of camp, and it
is very important that you get it in on time. If your balance is not
received on time, we will add a $25 late fee, and if it's not in one month
before camp starts we'll have to drop you from the roster and give your
spot to someone else. If your plans change, the balance (if paid early) can
be refunded up until 6 weeks before camp starts. If you prefer, you are
welcome to pay the whole camp fee at the time of registration.
A plea/about registering for Session 3: Please register early! In 2002, our
first year on the East Coast, we had only 66 campers. Our contract (and our
own internal budget) was based on more campers, so even though the Buffalo
Gap managers kindly gave us a partial break at the last minute, we still
lost money, largely because we paid for meals and beds that we didn't use.
We can't afford to do that again in 2003, so if we don't have enough people
registered by March 18, we will need to cancel our contract in order to
receive a refund on our substantial deposit. Of course, our hope and
expectation is that since most people had a great time in 2002, we'll fill
up quickly in 2003. But we can't take a big financial risk again.
-About refunds:- While in the past we had a strict policy of not giving
refunds of deposits at all, and not of other camp funds past a certain
date, we now charge enough money for camp that we generally cover all our
costs when all sessions of camp are full, and are therefore able to give
partial refunds in some cases. In a nutshell: we do not give ANY refunds
until after camp is over. At that point, we will give refunds in this
priority:
anyone who got contagiously sick enough at the last minute that we asked
them not to come to camp gets a refund of all but $40 of their camp fees.
(We may require a written and signed statement from a healthcare provider.
And, sorry, but we are talking only about contagious diseases here, not
broken legs or non-contagious illnesses.)
if all sessions of camp were full, then we may give some partial refunds
with priority going to people who canceled earliest. We will always retain
a $40 processing fee, but at our discretion may refund everything else,
including the initial deposit. Be sure to make a written request (email or
fax is fine) if you want a refund; otherwise we will keep your full deposit
or camp fees and use them for miscellaneous camp expenses-or, if there are
none, your fees will go into our scholarship fund.
Scholarships and work trade positions: We offer 12 half-price scholarships
for families who couldn't otherwise afford NBTSC. Also, we have 5 work-
trade positions available. These, too, are for families who would otherwise
have trouble paying for camp. If you'd like an application for either a
scholarship or work-trade, send a SASE to our office or see our website. We
may have a few additional scholarships available also, of varying amounts,
thanks to our scholarship fund (see below). The deadline to apply for these
scholarships is March 18, 2003. However, we may also have some additional
scholarship money available after that point.
-Important note:- this may not always be the case, and we certainly can't
predict how things will go in the future, but in the past, almost everyone
who has requested scholarship money has received it. Specifically, in 2001
everyone who applied for a scholarship on time received either a worktrade
or a scholarship (many of them were for more-than-half the cost of camp),
and in 2002 everyone who applied for a scholarship, even late, received
either a worktrade or a scholarship. Now that we've made our public service
announcement, there may be more competition for these resources, but we
really want you to know that if (lack of) money stands in the way of your
attending NBTSC, you shouldn't give up without trying!
-Fundraising:- People earn camp money in all kinds of ways-one girl sells
candy in her yard, right after the nearby school gets out in the afternoon,
while kids are walking home. Some people get jobs. One girl earned all of
her 1999 money by playing her violin on street corners. You could also ask
for a group of your friends and relatives-or your local homeschool support
group-to sponsor you, spreading the cost among lots of people.
Some people earn money by selling copies of Grace's books (The Teenage
Liberation Handbook, Real Lives, and Freedom Challenge) to friends,
relatives, school friends, local homeschoolers, whoever. (Several campers
have sold over 50 copies of the TLH to their friends.) You earn
approximately 35%, or about $6, for each copy. (This is after paying
shipping costs.) Contact us for more info. Sorry, but Genius Tribe book
fairs are no longer an option, since the Genius Tribe catalog is pretty
much extinct.
-Donating to our tax-deductible scholarship fund!-
Thanks to the Self-Education Foundation, you or your parents or your fairy
godfathers can give money that will be in turn given to people who couldn't
otherwise afford to come to camp. This fund is in addition to our standard
practice of offering a set number of half-scholarships and work trades each
year. With this fund, we do whatever feels most appropriate-in one case
that means contributing $100 to someone's camp fees; in another case it
could mean a full scholarship plus a $200 travel stipend. Please consider
giving to this fund, or asking other people to, now or in the future. (We
know a lot of you are gonna get rich 10 or 20 years from now, and we hope
that when you do, you remember your good old alma mater in your hearts and
your wills and your checkbooks.)
To support this fund, please make out your check to the Self Education
Foundation and mark in your check's memo line (or in an accompanying note)
that the money is specifically for the NBTSC scholarship fund. Mail to us
or to the Self Education Foundation, P.O. Box 30790, Philadelphia, PA
19104. Thank you!!!
The Self-Education Foundation, by the way, is a fantastic philanthropic
organization. (It was founded by Billy Wimsatt, who was a NBTSC staffer in
'96 and '97 and is the author of Bomb the Suburbs and No More Prisons, 2 of
Grace's favorite books. And I, Grace, serve on its board.) It works to
build and support a cohesive movement, across cultures and disciplines, of
people initiating their own education. It funds, supports, and networks
unschoolers and education mavericks from tough backgrounds who have added
barriers to successfully educating themselves, their kids, their
communities, and the world. For more info, check out www.selfeducation.org.
You should also know that another source of scholarship donations is our
beloved NBTSC staffers-occasionally a staffer gives up some or all of their
pay, and it goes directly toward camp scholarships instead.
-The Fine Print-
-Responsibilities:- Each person contributes to the spiffiness of camp in two
major ways:
* fun, possibly creative work which draws on your unique talents. Each of
you will be asked to coach a game or sport, lifeguard for an afternoon at
the swimming hole, teach a workshop, lead the singing around the campfire
one night, or some such.
* You'll get to perform a few grungy, possibly even disgusting menial
chores too! We help prepare meals, clean up after them, keep the bathrooms
clean, and clean our cabins before we leave. You may have to scrub a toilet
or 2, but hey, you'll have partners and you can whistle while you work.
Each camper has about 4-5 hours of chores during the week.
-Travel-
-Travel arrangements Sessions 1 & 2:- You can drive, train, bicycle, fly, or
bus into Eugene. Eugene has a small commercial airport serviced by several
major airlines including United; many campers fly into Eugene directly.
Others fly into Portland, 100 miles north, and take the bus or train to
Eugene. Our buses pick campers up at the Greyhound bus depot, the airport,
the Amtrak train station, and Monroe Park near downtown. You should arrive
by 2:30 if possible, and 4:00 at the absolute latest. On our last day,
we'll return you to your pick of those same locations by around noon. You
can also drive yourself, or have someone else drive you, directly to Camp
Myrtlewood.
-Travel arrangements Session 3:- Most people drive or carpool directly to
Buffalo Gap. You should arrive between 5:30 and 6 p.m. If you can't do
that, we'll pick you up between 2:30 and 4:00 p.m. in Winchester, Virginia.
(Locations TBA later, but will include the Greyhound Bus Station.) Or, if
you're taking the train, we can pick you up between 2:30 and 4:00 p.m. in
Cumberland, Maryland. For air travel, you'll want to fly into a larger
nearby airport (such as Pittsburgh, Dulles, or Reagan) and then take the
bus or train or catch a ride with another camper. We'll provide more
details, particularly for people flying into DC, in our spring mailing. On
the last day, we'll return you to Winchester (or Cumberland if necessary)
by noon. Or, your parents may pick you up at Buffalo Gap if they can arrive
by 10 a.m.
-All sessions:- if you have a car with you during the week, you absolutely
may not drive it--no matter how old you are--and we may ask you to turn your
keys over to us until camp is over.
-Travel complications:- If you can't arrive early enough on the first day, or
leave late enough on the last day, we can make arrangements for you to stay
in a hotel room with other campers and a staff person; cost will be
approximately $35. Please do not take advantage of this offer unless your
travel schedule really requires it! It is a pain for us to supervise hotel
rooms and play taxi. Be aware that hotel rooms may be supervised (at times
in the past, the hotel we have worked with has required that) and we will
enforce a curfew.
A logistical note for people attending both sessions 1 and 2: You may
either ride the buses back to Eugene in between the two sessions, or for
about $80 each, up to 20 campers can stay at Camp Myrtlewood for the 3
extra nights. You'll need to do some chores, be mellow-staff will be in
long meetings and deep comas-and move temporarily into a different cabin.
You'll have a chance to do laundry and we'll feed you. If you go back to
Eugene, you're on your own-sorry, but we can't help you make hotel
arrangements or provide any transportation except for the bus ride from and
to camp.
-If you have special needs:- Both Camp Myrtlewood and Buffalo Gap can
accommodate wheelchairs, though like any outdoor setting they can pose
challenges to anyone (including people in "normal" physical condition).
Educate us about your needs, and we'll do our best to make your week
comfortable, safe, and exciting.
-Health and safety:- We usually have no camp nurse or other medical person on
staff. There will, however, be at least one staff person trained in first
aid and CPR. In case of emergency, you will be taken by ambulance to the
nearest hospital. (The hospitals that serve both Camp Myrtlewood and
Buffalo Gap are approximately 45 minutes away, but the ambulances are
local, so they can arrive quickly.) You must basically be responsible for
your own health, bring any (regular) necessary medications with you, etc.
Your camp fee does include insurance for accidents/injuries that take place
on the camp grounds.
-What if you get sick when it's time to come to camp?-
Depending on how sick you are and what you have, we may ask you not to
come. We will consider on a case-by-case basis whether people who are
already sick (and contagious) should attend. If we ask you not to attend,
we will give you a refund of all your money, minus a $40 processing fee.
(Before sending the refund we may request that you send a signed statement
from a healthcare provider.)
-More information later-
Approximately 3 months before the start of camp you'll receive a handbook,
which includes a list of what to bring and plenty of other information to
help you prepare for camp. In the meantime, hang onto this booklet.
-Answers to questions some people ask-
Why can't each session of NBTSC be longer?
* Because that would make it too expensive for many people.
* Because that would make it harder to find staff (many staff people come to
NBTSC on their vacations).
* Because the staff gets tired and needs a break.
-Why is NBTSC vegetarian?-
We do not intend to make any kind of moral or political statement about
diet. NBTSC staff includes vegetarians, vegans, and carnivores. Your co-
directors, Grace and Taber, have at different times in their lives been
vegetarians, vegans, raw foodists, and carnivores. But for our purposes at
camp, meat is both too expensive and too unsanitary. We are sticklers about
providing healthy, mostly organically grown ingredients whenever possible,
and organic and chemical-free meat is way expensive. Also, because many
campers are vegetarian, our vegetarian menu helps us to satisfy the largest
number of people without preparing a ton of different dishes at each meal.
You are welcome to bring your own meat supplements (jerky, tuna in cans,
dried fish, etc.) if you want. (At Buffalo Gap, our meals are not be
prepared by NBTSC staff, and are not organic.)
-How is the West Virginia camp different from the Oregon camp?-
We have a big swimming lake rather than a sweet little creek. There are
more (and larger) indoor spaces available to us. Their staff cooks for us-
they serve vegetarian and vegan meals (they don't, unfortunately, use
organic ingredients). If it's anything like 2002, we'll see lots of new
folks and a much higher proportion of east coast folks.
-Can people who are younger than 13 or older than 18 come?-
We generally let 12 year olds in when they and their parents clearly
understand and accept and feel ready for the fact that this is basically a
teenage camp, full of all kinds of lovely, wild teenage energy.
We also occasionally make exceptions for folks who are 19+, though usually
only for people who have previously attended camp. Again, we want to know
that you understand that this a camp geared for teenagers, and all campers
are expected to live with the same agreements and other policies.
-Rules-
An overwhelming number of past campers have commented that with our
policies and attitudes they felt free, trusted, and yet safe and well cared
for. The rules we do have are very important-designed to protect everyone's
safety and peace, and to ensure that we can continue to have NBTSC, yet
without limiting freedom unnecessarily. Please do be aware that for any
serious rule infractions, we always contact parents. Our past experience
has been that for the most part, we get along superbly and people respect
each other and the rules.
Our rules are relatively lax compared to those of most other camps and
youth activities. In particular, we have very few required activities on
the schedule, and we do not have a set bedtime or require you to sleep in
your assigned bed. Instead, we ask you to use your time well according to
your own values, and we ask you to create, and then use, a "bedtime policy"
that serves your own particular needs and goals at camp, and regardless of
where you sleep, we expect you to honor our "no sex at camp" rule.
We often refer to our rules as agreements. Camp is not something we, the
government, your parents, or your friends require you to do-it is something
you choose to do. (In fact, our most important rule is that you cannot come
to camp unless it is your own free choice to do so.) In choosing to be
there, we expect you to agree to act in the way that we ask you to, in
order to help co-create the best possible camp for you and everyone else.
-an important note for parents and campers on bedtimes and sleeping
arrangements-
We want to clarify a few things in light of some questions and concerns
expressed by parents, and in light of some (rather different) questions and
concerns expressed by campers. We have carefully considered and
reconsidered our goals for camp, and at least for 2003, this is where we
continue to stand:
As in the past, we do not plan to enforce a bedtime at camp. We will
continue to require lights out/quiet in cabins from approximately midnight
to 8 a.m., but allow people to stay up later in the lodge, at the campfire
circle, etc.
We do, however, ask each camper to write up a personal policy that they
will use to determine when to go to bed each night, based on what they
understand about themselves and what is important to them during the camp
week. This is a relatively new program, which we started in 2001; overall
it has been effective and received good reviews from campers. We do this
because while we don't want to unnecessarily limit freedom, we do want
campers to take good care of themselves and get enough sleep. And, we want
to encourage more participation in daytime workshops and activities.
Also (and as in the past), we do not plan to require campers to sleep in
their assigned beds. (We don't allow girls in boys' cabins or vice versa,
though.) Most campers sleep in their beds most of the time. Some campers,
however, sleep in groups (which are often mixed-gender) in public spaces or
outside. Sometimes these groups are affectionate and cuddly. To be a little
more blunt, at times they are just heaps of people-to those of us on staff,
they sometimes look quite uncomfortable. While we firmly expect campers to
observe our "no sex at camp" and "no nudity" rules (and initiate plenty of
dialogue when that seems called for), we do not police these groups. Our
observation (borne out by many candid reports from individual campers) is
that while occasionally there is some mildly sexual behavior, by and large
these "people piles" are innocent. We feel that while they do make it
possible for people to bend the rules, there are other ways for people to
bend the rules who have decided to do so, and that to tighten our policy in
this regard would be more of a detriment than a benefit to camp and
campers.
Because we know that some campers may not be fully ready to make their own
healthiest choices about this (and other) matters, and because as parents
you know your kids better than we do, we suggest that you talk about this
subject as a family, and perhaps clarify your own expectations or
agreements independently of camp rules and policies. In other words, we do
stand behind the rules that we set, and take reasonable steps to ensure
that they are followed, but we cannot be responsible for making sure that
your kids behave the way that you think is best for them.
In the past, we have swung to different sides of the pendulum-tightening
things up at parents' requests, then seeing (and hearing from campers) that
we've caused more harm than good, preventing innocent affection more than
anything else, and so swinging back to a looser stance. We're hoping to
strike a better balance, in part by asking you-the parents-to get involved
by having your own family discussions. (It might also be helpful for you to
talk, as a family, about what kind of a bedtime policy might work best. In
our spring mailing we will include some examples of previous policies that
have worked well.)
-Grace says:- If your family runs into road blocks in negotiating this
territory (or any other, for that matter), or you simply want some help in
creating a win-win agreement, I'd highly recommend a phone consultation
with Taber Shadburne, my co-director. He's a psychotherapist and family
counselor who specializes in this sort of thing and I think he's about as
skilled and insightful as they come. If money is an issue, he may be able
to work out a discount or partial trade or some such. You can reach him at
415-479-3340, or taber@nbtsc.org.
One more note. Our experience at camp has always been that most campers are
extremely mature-that is, cooperative, beyond the need to rebel for
rebellion's sake, and kind and empathetic to staff as well as to each
other. When we envision our policies at future camps, it is always with
this kind of maturity in mind. In the unlikely event that we ever find
ourselves with a different quality of camp community, we will need to shift
the way we do things. We are committed to creating the best possible
balance of freedom and caretaking, given the particular group of human
beings that we find ourselves serving.
-Campers say:-
"I feel genuine kinship and community here. I'm going back to my usual
home with feelings of hope and inspiration and a clearer vision for my
horizons."
"Wonderful people, and everyone following their bliss. Camp is an
energizing bath of joyful energy that left me full of awe and inspiration
for my own life."
"Camp was one of the most inspiring and purifying experiences I've ever
had. It makes me hungry for life again."
"This camp was by far the best thing that ever happened to me.
"The only thing I don't like about camp is leaving at the end. I mean I
know that we have to leave at some point, but I wish we didn't. I just love
camp that much."
"I had never been in such a big group of people that were so open,
nonjudgmental, loving, honest, and just wonderful to be around! The energy
of it all was so incredibly awesome! It was the best experience I have ever
had.
"I will definitely be coming back next year and for both sessions!!! I had
the time of my life at NBTSC!"
"1 just want to let you all know how much of a great time 1 had at camp. I
really think the people at camp were the most open, loving, fun and
supportive group of young adults. Thank you all for the things I learned at
camp. I really, really, really want to be there next year!"
"Overall, I think this was the best week of my life. The energy of
vibrant, thinking, life-loving people is the most intensely powerful thing
I can imagine."
"Camp is good for me. It's good for my spirit. It totally rejuvenates me,
and inspires me. This is partly who Jam, camp affects everyone a little
differently, of course. Don't send your kid here thinking they'll come home
some kind of superkid. Camp isn't for the parent. It's for the kid. It's an
experience they won't forget. But everyone processes differently, and every
kid may NOT come home totally inspired. The majority will, I suppose...."
"Never before has a camp had such an effect on me as this one. I was so at
peace with myself and others, it was incredible. I never wanted to leave."
"This camp gives you the feeling that no matter who you are or wherever
you re from, you will always be welcome!"
"Camp has been the best three weeks of the last three years of my life.
Some of my very favorite people are the people I've met here in the last
three years."
"Every year it continues to amaze me how so many wonderful, accepting
people there really are. I've made more lasting friends at camp than in the
whole rest of my life put together."
"I'm writing to say again how thrilled lam with camp. You get together
such a great group of wonderful, talented people. I'm really amazed at your
ability to make it work so well." "1 feel like a different and better
person! I haven't even fought with my sister who also went to camp. Or my
other siblings for that matter."
"Camp is the high point of my unschool year. Each time I make new friends,
learn new things, and leave with a beautiful feeling."
"To be at NBTSC is a life changing experience. It sounds like a cliché but
it's never been more genuine than in this case."
"This was the funnest camp I've ever been to and everyone was so nice!"
"Not Back to School Camp has consistently and persistently demanded that I
try new things and challenge the way I look at the world. I have come
across so many amazing people with amazing talents, I think I have a new
family of 120 people!"
"I was thrilled by everything: the idea, the staff the campers, the
openness, the inspiration that lasts all year. Thank you."
"Like last year, I came home totally inspired. 1 feel like the days are
not long enough for all the things I want to learn/study now. 1 feel like I
can change the world. I know I can change the world. 120 campers and
advisors felt the same way that week, I think, and many of them have
carried that feeling home. It was worth every bit of money and time-- I
love camp. I highly recommend it, especially to those who are wondering if
they're doing the right thing and to those who feel apathetic and
unenthusiastic about learning, life, whatever. There is a joy in life at
camp. A warning however: you can't get much out of camp if you don't put
much in. The more you participate in things, try talking to new people, and
explore, the better time you will have. And personally, I find that by the
end of camp, what energy I put into being there has come back, multiplied,
a hundredfold."
"This camp totally changed my life. I feel confident and proud to walk the
path I chose."