Bitchin About Your X

A page for anyone to complain or obsess or rant about their ex. what they're doin to you, not doin to you, have done to you, what you simply want to say to their face... or just how you feel :)

As I sit here, thinking about my Ex's, and how we treated each other, after we broke up, it's kind of sad, I don't hold anything agenst either of them any more, I saw one of them a month or so ago, and it was not a bad expearnce on my part, but I have moved on, sometimes I wonder if I should try to contact them, and try being friends again, I think that I might be better off, if I just keep to my self.

I don't know if my problem is with my x or with my other friend. But my x absolutely runs away if we're in teh same room (and since we were/are at the same college we end up being in the same room occasionally). And then I ended up befriending a girl who started dating him... okay, fine, we balanced that fine, even if he got all stormy and mad when I entered the room.

Now, my other college friend is chasing him and badmouthing his current girlfriend. So all I want is to be far away from ALL of them. Grrr..... stupid, stupid, stupid.

- Christy

I went out with my x for 3 years, and before and during he was my best friend. He still is, three months after we've broken up. But I'm pretty much his only friend and it's really hard getting over this guy when I can't even avoid him. And then tonight on the phone I made a fool of myself by asking him if he could come over and spend the night tonight to keep me company cause I'm lonely and really depressed. Not for sex or anything. His response "I think thad be a bad idea." "How so? I mean, in what way?" "In any way whatsoever." Ouch. In taking Samantha's advice I've been avoiding calling him as much as possible. But he calls me at least every other day and jeez it's so hard not to always spill my guts to him! he's been my best friend for four frickin years! And also, even though we're x's now and getting over each other things are actually not awkward. Which makes it easier for me to tell him everything I'm thinking. sigh Aeris

wow! i may just take advantage of this here space... but which ex should i start with...?

witchbaby cackles

Eireann bitches that she can't use up this space cuz her ex (and good friend) is too awesome to bitch about! Heehee.

Now he's pulling a new trick on me. Whenever I do or say something he doesn't like he acts like he's sooo surprised that I've ever done that and I must be a very changed person if I'm acting that different. In fact, how can he be sure he can trust me at all if I'm not being entirely predictable. People change. I'm coming out of my shell and getting more loose, he's having a sort of clinical paranoia and I'm getting taken out as a casualty! I've never betrayed this guy, in five frickin years of friendship, and now he doesn't really trust me at all. And if I act in a way he doesn't like, approve of, or wasn't expecting, there must be something wrong with me. Or maybe I'm being possessed by a demon and don't even know it, and the demon's trying to get to him. I've never done this guy wrong and I'm being treated like grade A shit. How many people in the world would still have anything to do with him? Let alone still be his "best" or at least closest friend. ARGH! Any advice would be oh so appreciated. -Aeris the Way Too Bloody Patient

• Give him distance, a lot of it. Go have fun with other friends, especially people who don't know him at all. Dance at nightclubs, spend the day sewing with a girl friend, climb a mountain, and just plain don't take shit. Good luck :)
• Thanks for the input :D sounds good to me. -Aeris

I don't want to have anything to post on this page. So I'll try an' fix it instead. Ari.

Well, it's really over. Had a long discussion about not being together any more, and he really wasn't nice about it. >:( So I'm crying a lot and just wishing that I had a way to get over him... God this hurts. Also, he's been my only source of affection for months and now I won't get any from him. He didn't even sound sorry on the phone. Samantha, will you kick his ass for me ;) or at least threaten him a little? Just kidding. Wish you could though, it would make me feel a little better. Oh! And he's also seriously considering dating this girl he doesn't know very well. Seeming just to date someone. I don't understand this myself. *sigh* -Aeris

My ex (and good friend) is halfway around the world. 'Nuff said. Well, not quite. I don't know if she's permanently my ex, or if I'm just on hold for a while, and this ambiguous ex status is eating at me. Blah.

whenever i hear the term 'x', i think of this horrible country song that i used to hear a lot when i listened to country. which was when i was eight. anyways, here's my personalized version of this song. even though i'll only personalize one verse...

all my ex's don' live in texas!

i'm so creative! man. slap my ass and call me betty-sue.

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