Want A Deep Meaningful Relationship

i want a Deep meaningful realation ship just with some one close by

Thomas

So, like, I was talking to Casey once, telling him about these little wireless devices they have in Japan (they might have 'em in the U.S. by now, who knows, this was a while ago) that you program with your personality traits and interests and such, and then you wear them around your neck, and when two devices with compatible listings come into close proximity they start beeping. Sort of do-it-yourself computer dating. I thought it sounded sort of shallow, but Casey was like, "yes, it's about time! Some people who have it all figured it! It's all about problem solving!"

With that attitude in mind, from the people who brought you WantToGetLaid, we give you another experiment in cynical mass-market humanity, WantADeepMeaningfulRelationship (D.M.R). It's like WantToGetLaid, but with more emphasis on deep emotional connections, and less on gettin' it on.

• How 'bout an example ad? Should we list interests or is this all free form or what? -Samantha

• freestyle! deep meaningfull relationships don't have to be romantic or sexual, so I don't think a set format would be good here.

I personally am all about deep meaningfull relationships. I'm considered anti-social by some, but that's not it at all, I just enjoy intence one-on-one contact with one other person at a time. That's how I love to relate to people. So yeah, I'm all about deep meaningfull relationships of any and all varieties. Trying out as many d.m.r's as I can is definitely something I want in life right now. so yeah... try me.

I loooooooooove deep meaningfull relationships! Beware: I love people to death, pick them apart, am prone to be hard on them and tell them to get themselves in gear and stop sulking around, hug them when they're down, and teach them to tango. Bring it on! Wind at nbtsc.org

I want a deep meaningful romantic relationship. I want someone to kiss on the back of their neck, someone to discuss everything and anything while getting (and giving) a full body massage. I want someone to come up behind me and throw their arms around me, and as I turn around to look at them, to kiss me. I want a long, deep, meaningful relationship with a certain person in particular. ~Jadzia

Oh, what, eh? Deep Meaningful Relationship? Yes please! Emma

Eeeeeyup. Deep Meaningful Relationships are so swoonworthy, even if they only last a week or three. I want someone who I can stare deeply and passionately in the eyes and who will stare back without flinching, someone who I can giggle madly with, and someone's who's not an alien, prefferably, though I hear the ones from venus make really good hot chocolate. That's the most important criteria. ~Becky~

A Deep Meaningful Relationship is somthing i've been looking for for a long time and i know i wont find it just like that. I need someone who will hold me when i need it and i need it a lot, doesn't mind kissing in public and i can be myself around, be silly, be mad, be sad, and there for me when i need him the most. yes i know thats a lot to ask for and i don't know if i'll ever have it but maybe some day. some day. -Carolyn

Marina is curious... how important is commitment in a D.M.R.? What do you think?

• Hmmmmm. I think it probably really depends on the people involved. I've heard tell of people who can be completely at ease about having a very D.M.R. with one person while having other relationships on the side, that all parties involved are aware of. However, this seems to be the exception rather than the norm. Personally, I want commitment. The deeper and more meaningful the relationship, the greater the level of commitment I expect. It seems as though trust and commitment often go hand in hand with any kind of relationship. Though perhaps we should define "commitment." To me, it means being able to trust that the person you're involved with is focused on you and your relationship together, and is going to put time and energy into making said relationship work, and isn't going to be easily distracted by someone else. So yes. In my humble and inexperienced opinion, commitment in D.M.R.s is very important. 'Nough said. ~Becky~