We do have a simple application process to help ensure that we'll have a compatible, cooperative mix of people. (Our application isn't quite ready, but should be by about May 3.) In general, people who get the most out of the Dream House will be flexible, not dogmatic or preachy about their beliefs (including politics and food choices), curious, open-minded, friendly, cooperative, open and direct rather than gossipy. They'll be willing to be tidy, but not too easily annoyed by a little messiness caused by other people; they'll be willing to be quiet, but not too easily disturbed by other people's noises.

 Of course, none of us are all of those ways all of the time. We all have our shadow sides and our bad moods. We don't expect perfection, but we are definitely looking for people who are willing to cooperate and who want to learn from each other.

 Because we will be sharing tight quarters, it will also help if you are either a sound sleeper or willing to use earplugs. No matter how quiet your roommates try to be--and we will require that people make a great effort to be quiet at night in the bedrooms--sometimes they will inadvertently make noise--by snoring, tripping on something as they leave to go to the bathroom, etc. 

 Similarly, because we will be sharing only a few bathrooms among a lot of people, we hope you both 1) will take short showers yourself, 2) be willing for other people of the same gender to use the toilet while you’re in the shower, and 3) not feel too impatient or desperate when the bathrooms are full.

 And likewise, because we will be cooking mainly vegetarian meals, you will enjoy your Dream House experience more if you are either vegetarian or interested in experimenting with a mainly vegetarian diet. Of course you can eat meat while you live at the house, but people who are accustomed to eating meat at every meal and are not open to trying something different may get crotchety. 

 The Dream House is not Not Back to School Camp, nor is it simply a shared household. While the vast majority of each day is left up to the individual's choosing, we will be working together on some things and sharing a common vision. We ask that all Dreamers commit to the following:

Attendance at most other events is optional but encouraged:

If you are not between the ages of 14 and 19, but would like to participate in the Dream House, we will consider your case individually. Some 12- and 13-year olds may be mature enough to participate, and we may benefit from including a few older members.

To reserve your space in the Dream House, click here.